Buffy chooses to taunt her mother by applying to other universities knowing that she's destined to stay in Sunnydale.
Everyone chooses to ignore Wesley.
Xander chooses to go on the road (although I believe he doesn't?)
Oz chooses to throw a pot across the room.
Willow chooses the two key pages from the five volume Books of Accesnsion after skimming through them in a minute.

... and ...

Nobody has chosen to make a decent song with "choose" or "choice" in the title that I can post so... I've been saving this one for when I get really stuck
The Go-Betweens - Spirit of a Vampire

You said 'Learn to dance, learn to act, learn the piano', and most of all you said 'learn to live again'.